Your palms are sweaty. Your heart is racing. And just when you close your eyes to take a deep breath, you hear what has led to your prior sleepless night: "Miss, the boss will see you now." Yes, it's your first job interview. And on top of that, your first job. But don't worry, ladies. We enlisted the assistance of Mr. Tony Beshara, author of "The Job Search Solution: The Ultimate System for Finding a Great Job Now!," to give us the scoop on what it takes to get your feet in the door, (you know, the door that sometimes seems revolving). Beshara is well-bred in this topic; having been in the business of finding jobs for professionals for over thirty years, he even caught the eye of Phil McGraw, and has been featured numerous times on the counselor's talk show, The Dr. Phil Show, for his expertise. Luckily, we snagged Tony for a lengthy chat to get the dish on how to work your way into a career. Don't worry, you can thank us on your way to becoming CEO!

gt.com: the publishing industry is a tough business to crack. what made you decide to write "The Job Search Solution?"

TONY: I knew the publishing industry was a pretty tough business because of my academic background. I decided to write "The Job Search Solution" at my wife's encouragement. The first time we were on The Dr. Phil Show, one of his other guests had written a book, which Dr. Phil was kind enough to talk about. In the process of helping Dr. Phil's client, my wife mentioned that I should write about my experience since 1973 in finding people jobs. After each airing of the two shows that ran, close to 1500 people called my office asking for my help. Unfortunately, our primary market is Dallas, Texas, so I couldn't offer a lot of general help. We decided the best way to help those people was to publish my techniques in a book.

gt.com: what a thoughtful idea! so, what do you think makes it different from other job-hunting how-to books?

TONY: It is written by someone who is actually "in the trenches" finding people jobs on a daily basis. God has given me a gift and I happen to be one of the best in the country in finding people jobs. I have personally placed more than 6500 professionals in all kinds of different jobs since 1973. So, on most given days, I know what I'm doing. None of the even minor books about finding a job are written by people who have the advantage of being so successful in the placement and recruitment business. I address issues and topics that most people just aren't aware of. And, more importantly, I teach people a system to deal with just about every aspect of finding a job. Only a tremendously experienced professional recruiter would know the things.

gt.com: you are absolutely right! from your experience, what do you suggest our readers do to separate themselves from the other applicants when pursuing a job?

TONY: Recognize that if they adopt a systematic approach to finding a job and manage the process of finding a job in the way I recommend, they don't have to worry about the result. If you manage the process of finding a job correctly, the result of getting a good job will take care of itself.

gt.com: good point. what would be your recommendation for the appropriate age to get out into the field, and still have enough time to gain experience for future career goals?

TONY: One of the first things that I'd recommend young people to do is to find some kind of work as young as they can. Studies have shown that the earlier a person learns what work is all about in their life, the more successful they are. Even "jobs" like washing the neighbor's car or morning lawns or selling Girl Scout cookies lead a person to understanding the correlation to reward and effort. So, even as a teenager, while in high school or college, I recommend some kind of "work." Working hard in school and getting the absolute best grade you can also translate into success. More importantly, I encourage young people to take aptitude tests to determine what their personalities and skills might lead to career-wise. Our children, who are mostly grown, took advantage of the Johnson O'Connor Research Foundation. I'm sure there are other organizations like them that do personality and skill assessments. Although I don't think a person should make their career decisions based 100% on these kinds of assessments, they do help a person discover what they might be better at than other things. For instance, if a person thinks they might want to be an engineer, but have only average math skills, they may want to reconsider pursuing that kind of career. Or if a person is considering teaching as a profession but discover, through these kinds of tests, that they all are impatient and need to work alone, they might reconsider that career.

gt.com: that is a great suggestion! should young people take any job that comes their way, if it may remotely have a chance to "make them?"

TONY: Young people should be weary of thinking that any kind of a job or any kind of a career will "make them." Most of us, through hard work and attitude can make our jobs a real career. Satisfaction from a job or career does not come from the job or the career itself, but rather, comes from the amount of effort and passion that a person invests in that job or career. Too many young people, and people in general, stand in front of their job or career the way they stand in front of a fire and metaphorically say, "Give me heat and then I'll give you wood." Well, it doesn't work that way. One has to adopt the attitude of, "I'll 'invest’ the wood, and then get heat."

gt.com: what a wonderful metaphor! so, preparation for an in-person job interview can cause so much anxiety. what should our readers do to be more calm, and still feel like they are fully prepared?

TONY: Two things -- first, realize that if they give a prospective employer good reasons of why they have to be hired, they don't have to worry about getting a job offer. If people realize that they need to "sell" the value of them being hired, everything else takes care of itself. Also, a person has to practice, practice, and practice the interviewing presentation that they make on themselves before they get into the interview. I recommend in my book, specifics scripts and formulas that are successful 95% of the time in the interviewing process. If people practice selling their value before they get into the interviewing situation, it will remove most of the negative anxiety.

gt.com: on that note, your book discusses the sure-fire ways to kill an interview. what would you say is the absolute worst thing to do in an interview?

TONY: The biggest mistake that most people make is going into an interview with the attitude of, "What can you do for me?" That attitude is the worst thing you can do in an interview. Instead, they need to realize that it is the candidate's responsibility to sell what they can do for the prospective employer. This also happens to be the most common mistake that young people make in seeking employment. No one "deserves" a job or career. It has to be earned.

gt.com: we'll make sure to avoid that one! now, let's talk about resumes. in your book, you talk about writing a resume in under thirty minutes. what are the most important parts of a resume?

TONY: I do mention in the book that you can write a resume in under thirty minutes. What I was trying to say is that most people spend way too much time writing a resume thinking that they are some kind of magical, mystical tool that's going to get somebody a better job. That just isn't so. Keep in mind that the purpose of a resume is not to get you a job. The purpose of the resume is to sell the hiring or interviewing authority on why they ought to interview you. I never recommend sending a resume to any interviewing or hiring authority unless it is preceded by a personal phone call to them. I've read that getting an interview by sending a resume over the internet is only successful around 2% of the time. Don't blindly e-mail resumes to every company that you can think of or even the ones that say they have an opening. Call a hiring authority, and try to sell them on seeing you face-to-face, then if you have to, e-mail a resume.

gt.com: excellent idea! but, as a young person, there may not be much employment to highlight. what other aspects can a person add to dress up a resume with past experiences?

TONY: Not having a lot of "work experience" to reflect on a resume isn't as much of a challenge as most people think. Most employers want to know how hard a worker a person is, how diligent they might be, and how successful they've been in the past…at the things they have done. If successes are things like good grades in school, leadership positions in school, success as an athlete, or even part-time jobs while in school, a prospective employer will take notice. I tell people: "You can't be 40 when you're 20 years old." The amount of experience needs to be balanced by the qualities of success.

gt.com: that's a great point! so, what are the types of skills employers are really looking for, and how can a young person prepare for them before pursuing a career?

TONY: The most important skill that employers are looking for in any person, no matter how young or old, is the ability to work hard. That means things like going the extra mile, going out of your way to do more than your asked, demonstrating passion and caring for what you do. All of these things carry over to just about any job or career.

gt.com: that is true! how about education -- what are your recommendations to clients as far as how to get the best employment, or even the best pay?

TONY: Having a number of degrees is really different than an "education." Having an undergraduate bachelor’s degree simply opens more doors to employment opportunities than not having a college degree. But not having a college degree doesn't mean a person can’t be successful...ask Michael Dell, Bill Gates or Larry Ellison. Our society has bought the idea that if you have "more education" you are a "better" person. It is simply not the case. I do believe that it is important to at least get a bachelor’s degree but not because it makes you smarter but because having it is, more or less, expected before entering a career. The unfortunate problem is that by not having it, a person is limited to the kinds of careers that he or she might pursue. Degrees, anywhere from a bachelor through a master's or Ph.D. never made any one successful.

gt.com: on that note, can a Bachelor's degree suffice these days, or is it vital to pursue that Master's Degree?

TONY: I mentioned in my book that the major reason that university's institute master degree programs is because they can actually make money for the university. The student to teacher ratio is phenomenally high in MBA. programs. The surplus in tuition from most MBA. programs can finance the scientific and technical departments of higher learning institutions where the student to teacher ratio is low and more expensive to run. Colleges and universities will never admit to this, but that's why you see so many MBA. programs. Undergraduate and MBA. degrees don't make people better professionals. The kind of people that get MBAs especially, would wind up being successful anyhow. But, because society supposedly values MBAs and since these people want to get ahead and be successful they get MBAs. But the MBA's don't necessarily make them better professionals. I'm not saying that it is not good to have an MBA. If people want to get them, they should be free to do that.

gt.com: that is an excellent point. in your opinion, do MBAs give potential employees a boost in the eyes of the hiring squad?

TONY: We interview a lot of candidates that think because they have any new MBA they're going to get a better job or be sought after by more organizations. That's simply not true in the mainstream of American business. In all of the years in the placement and recruitment business I've never seen a situation where candidate got hired because he had an MBA. Theoretically, if there were two equal candidates and one had an MBA and another one didn't and the company thought it would be better to have a person with that type of degree, I guess it would make a difference. But, believe me, I've never seen two equal candidates. And my company is a fairly large recruiting firm; we have placed more than 100,000 professionals. Degrees are good, but they're no panacea and they certainly aren't any "key" to success. I have a Ph.D. and not one of my candidates or my clients give a damn. I either find a good job or I find them a good candidate that they hire or I don’t. They could care less about my degree.

gt.com: now, let us ask you about those follow-up calls. when is it appropriate to call an employer that hasn't touched base without looking too eager or annoying?

TONY: A person should act eager to get a job offer. I suggest calling them persistently until you get a response or after 10 or 15 calls with no return call you may come to the conclusion that you probably aren't being considered. Candidates often get concerned about appearing "desperate." My analogy is this. Did Michael Jordan appear desperate when he played even if he was 25 points ahead.... absolutely. There is a difference between coming across intense, passionate and aggressive and coming across as beggingly desperate. The attitude needs to be: "You're absolutely right...I am intensely interested in going to work for you. I need to know exactly where I stand with your organization." The implication is that the candidate is doing this with every organization with whom he or she is interviewing. If it is communicated in a meek, mousy, begging manner, then it will come across as a desperate. If it is communicate it in an aggressive, businesslike manner, it works.

gt.com: fantastic suggestion! let's say one of our readers has to make this decision: a job that isn't their ideal but available immediately, or rejecting that job because they are waiting on a different employer that is closer to their ideal. what would you advise?

TONY: First of all, they're very few ideal jobs. Some might be better than others, but you really honestly don't know that in the interviewing process. Jobs appear to be one way in the interviewing process and, more often than not, turn out to be another way once you are on the job for a while. I tell candidates that if a job is within 75% to 80% of what an ideal situation would be, that's probably about as good as you're going to do. I give a “formula” in the book. I would never ever ever tell a candidate to pass up an offer in hand, that is a reasonable offer and wait for one that might look to be closer to their ideal unless they could find out about the second one before they had to commit to the first. If you have an offer from one firm and you think you are close to another offer with a better opportunity, it is advisable to call the second opportunity, and explain to them that you have an offer in hand and you like to know what their situation is. If they don't make you an offer within, say a day or so, they aren't serious about you, so accept the initial offer. Candidates misinterpret being "close to" an offer all the time. Until you actually have an offer in hand you really don't have any thing and all. 30% of the job opportunities that we, as a placement firm, work with never get filled at all. That's a shock to most candidates. All kinds of things happen to keep companies from actually filling positions even though they sincerely start out with the idea that that's what they're going to do. Everything, and I mean everything, is speculation until you have an offer in hand. So if you get an offer and you think you might have another one in the wings, you should call that second firm and try to get an offer immediately. If you don’t, then you should take the first one that was made.

gt.com: great answer! your book talks about the myths and realities about job finding. what do you think is the myth that is most rampant?

TONY: That businesses in the United States operate with common sense with a high degree of business acumen. 97% of the companies in the United States employed less than a hundred people. These firms operate like most of the people that run them. To quote Brian Tracy, one of our country's most intelligent and prolific business consultants, these people are: "Ambitious, greedy, selfish, lazy, impatient, vain and ignorant." They run their companies the same way. Most businesses run by the seat of their pants. They are impetuous, lack common sense and, most of the time; see the world through their own inflated ego. I'm amazed they do as well as they do.

gt.com: thanks for clearing that up! how can our young readers overcome an employer bias, like age, when looking for a job?

TONY: The best way to overcome any perceived bias on the part of an employer is to sell experience and track record. There's a lot greater bias against older people than there is younger people. The younger people have a disadvantage in having very little experience. So, what I would recommend is for a young candidate to do what we call "change the base." If the candidate perceives that a hiring authority is concerned that they're too young and inexperienced, the candidate needs to say something to change the base of what the employer is concerned about all along this line: "While your concern, Mr. or Ms. ___, might be that I do not have enough experience, let me point out to you that I've been successful in everything that I have never done in spite of the fact that I had no experience. Before I went to high school, I had never been in high school and I was very successful. Before I went to college, I had never been to college and I was very successful in college. I have been successful in everything I've ever done since I was 14 years old and none of it was based on previous experience. A winner is a winner is a winner. I've always been a winner and I will be a winner for you." The candidate is changing the base of "the amount of experience " to a base of a "success." The candidate gets the hiring authority to focus on the success that the candidate has had rather than the amount of experience.

gt.com: that's an excellent suggestion! even pursuing a non-paid internship can be difficult. what would you recommend to our readers in the search of internships?

TONY: It's like looking for any other kind of job. An individual has to be very, very proactive and interview for lots of internships. An individual has to be prepared to call and talk to maybe hundreds of people and be rejected hundreds of times before they are successful. As with looking for a job, they need to develop a system of looking for an internship. In 1996, when my oldest son graduated from Columbia University in New York, he wanted to get into the investment banking business. I instructed him to cold call every investment banking firm in New York and offer to work for them for 90 days for free just to get experience. I think he called investment-banking firms for two solid days. He found one, very small firm that was a division of an investment banking firm out of the U.K. that had one of their analysts going back to the U.K. for three months. They hired my son for $1000 a month…for 90 days. He was with them for two years and now he is one of the youngest vice presidents of J.P. Morgan Chase in New York. He kissed a lot of frogs before he found a princess.

gt.com: a lot of job-hunters can have pretty high standards. should those same job seekers learn to compromise, and if so, how and when would be the most suitable?

TONY: We experience candidates all the time that don't have so much a high standard as they do unrealistic ideas about what the market is going to bear for their skills. Job seekers can only get a realistic idea about what's available to them by committing to finding a new job and doing a lot of the interviewing. Compromising is relative. If you have a job that you like but need to find another one for relatively minor reasons, the compromises you might make may be minimal. If you have been out of work for six months you may end up compromising a lot. I can't really tell you what kind of compromise as a person might make. A candidate's "value" in the marketplace is based on the kind of job offers that he or she can get. No candidate has an "intrinsic" value. I liken it to people who speculate what their house is worth. Your house isn’t worth anything until the day you sell it. And what you get for it the day you sell it is what your house is worth. What you think it's worth may or may not have anything to do with what you sell it for. Being a job seeker is exactly the same thing. Your value is determined by the job offers that you get in your hand.

gt.com: that's a nice concept! your skills at job recruitment have even landed you a few appearances on the Dr. Phil Show. what have you personally learned by appearing on television, and how was that experience?

TONY: Appearing on television was a fun and interesting experience. Other than sports, I don't watch much television. Phil McGraw is one of the most congruent and real people there is on his level of popularity. Now, I haven't spent a lot of personal time with him, probably no more than 20 or 30 minutes. But, his organization that produces the Dr. Phil Show is one of the finest group of sincere, committed, hard working, just downright nice people that a person could ever experience. Phil McGraw's whole organization reflects his personal values. They are not just running a show. They are a sincere organization, truly committed to helping people. My personal exposure was mostly with the people that manage his shows. They're wonderful. The guy runs a wonderful business and deserves every bit of success that he has achieved. Most people don't know this, but Phil McGraw has a whole network of counselors and consultants that help people that appear on his show well beyond the appearances themselves and the Dr. Phil Show absorbs most all of the expenses It isn't just a show, this guy and his company really help folks. They run one heck of an organization and I can't say enough good things about them.

gt.com: finally, if you could only give young job-hunters one piece of advice, what would it be?

TONY: As Douglas MacArthur said, "find a system and work it.” If job hunters approached finding a job in a systematic way, the way I recommend it in the book, all of the emotional strain and dis-ease in looking for a job would be removed. If you work the process you don't have to worry about the result.

gt.com: what wonderful advice! thanks for the interview, Tony!

     Hopefully now, you feel a little less anxiety when going on that job hunt. For more insider information on everything from practical do's and don'ts, the common myths and realities of hiring, and the art of resumes, buy Tony's new book "The Job Search Solution: The Ultimate System for Finding a Great Job Now!" Okay, girls -- it's time we get out there and show the professional world what we're made of! Good luck!

 

                       

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